Petuah Dari Internet 4

1 Start a friendship first then the relationship.

2 Treat people how you want to be treated.

3 There’s a special power in responding and not reacting in life.

4 Anyone that comes on strong sexually in the beginning of a relationship isn’t relationship material.

5 Health is more important than I thought and trying to get it on track at 46 is more difficult than if I was 26.

6 When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them. Don’t wait for them to give you a second and third viewing.

7 A person that cheats and lies to you doesn’t value you as a person and definitely never respected you.

8 I’m my best friend. And at times I will be all I have. I need to love my own company and if I don’t, I need to figure out why.

9 You’re never to old to switch careers or do something you love. You will never know unless you take risk.

10 Stop saying tomorrow. Today is your tomorrow. Nothing changes if all you do is think about what you need to do.

11 That person your chasing, you know, the one that lied, cheated and betrayed you? You can do so much better. You don’t believe me? Clean your side of the street and watch who appears in your life.

12 When you put your awareness and lessons into action will come wisdom. With that wisdom you can do some amazing shit.

13 Pay careful attention to the most painful challenging times in your life. There’s a hidden lesson. Sometimes you have to search for it and sometimes you have to repeat the pain to find the hidden gem.

14 Alcohol doesn’t make things easier. It won’t make your relationship more manageable. It won’t make you more confident. It won’t make you forget the shitty things you do to people. And it definitely won’t make your life better. But it will add to your problems, ruin your health, ruin friendships and relationships with the shitty choices you make while hammered.

15 Relationship hopping isn’t the answer. Sit with yourself until you know “you.” Getting your identity from someone else will set you up for misery.

16 And finally, your past is your past. Learn from it and move on. It doesn’t define you Just don’t justify shitty behavior and use your past as an excuse to be a manipulative asshole.

Petuah Dari Internet 3

1. Never shake a man’s hand sitting down.

2. Don’t enter a pool by the stairs.

3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king.

4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.

5. Request the late check-out.

6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.

8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.

9. Play with passion or don’t play at all…

10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye.

11. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.

12. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.

13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.

14. You marry the girl, you marry her family.

15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.

16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.

17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

18. Never turn down a breath mint.

19. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.

20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.

21. Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.

22. Eat lunch with the new kid.

23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.

24. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.

25. Manners maketh the man.

26. Give credit. Take the blame.

27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied.

28. Write down your dreams.

29. Take time to snuggle your pets, they love you so much and are always happy to see you.

30. Be confident and humble at the same time.

31. If ever in doubt, remember whose son you are and REFUSE to just be ordinary!

32. In all things lead by example not explanation.

33. Dress how you want to be addressed

34. BE BLESSED BY BEING A BLESSING

Petuah Dari Internet 2

1. A salary is the drug your employer gives you to forget your dreams.

2. If you continue to wait for the “right time”, you’ll waste your entire life and nothing will happen.

3. Even when you trust your close friends and family, let them know nothing about you.

4. You’ll lose 99% of your close friends if you start upgrading your life.

5. Government and politicians are one giant scum that’ll never save you from your problems.

6. You’ll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them for your problems.

7. Train yourself to let people win arguments on purpose to conserve your mental health.

8. You become more mature when you train yourself to take nothing personally.

9. By age 25, your inner circle should be more focused on making money, building their body and starting a family.

10. You don’t need 100 self-help books, all you need is action + self discipline.

11. Skills and financial education will make you win over 97% of college graduates.

12. You can’t expect honesty from people who even lie to themselves.

13. People are stuck in toxic relationships because they’re afraid to be alone.

14. The most difficult mission on earth is to focus on your dreams; the easiest task is to complain.

15. One of the most important decision you will ever make is who you will have children with.
Choose wisely.